Friday, May 12, 2006

Remembering R.K. Narayan...

I have a writer’s block and I can only think of Swami, my best friend and cheerleader, to help me break out of this. He always comes to my rescue, no matter where or when. He’s always there for me.

Swami was my friend as I was growing up and he continues to be today. I was introduced to him in one of my English readers in middle school and since then he became a friend, a good friend, thru various periods of my life.

Yes, I am talking about R.K. Narayan’s famous protagonist from his first collection of short stories, Swami And His Friends, one of the most brilliant characters in English literature. Malgudi was like Mylapore to me, the town where I grew up.

What resonated most with me was the fact that Swami, even though he was a mischievous little boy, was another Tamil child like myself. I studied in an all girls convent in Madras, India, now known as Chennai, and most of the readings that I had in my English reader were from England or America. At the time, Swami was one of those rare finds for me. I could understand and vibe well with his character, clothes, parents and family, culture and traditions, pranks and tricks.

Like Graham Greene, E.M. Forster, Somerset Maughm and his other mentors and contemporaries, R.K. Narayan’s works have been enthralling several generations of readers and writers such as myself, and they will continue to for several generations more. Life in a small southern town in colonial India, the tradition and culture of this town as described by R.K. Narayan, are only too familiar to me.

The characterization of Swami and Malgudi is only one among many brilliant personalities, characters and settings that R.K. Narayan has so skillfully created. The minutiae and details that go into building each character in his works are simply inspiring.

To this day R.K. Narayan’s works are my remedy, whether it is to cheer me up, to be a tonic for any writer’s blocks that I may have, to provide relief from my two year olds antics, or to merely offer me pleasant and humorous entertainment. R.K. Narayan is a silent mentor guiding me with his crafty storytelling and simple yet elegant and precise writing style.

Even today as I skim through pages of Swami And His Friends I sincerely hope that Swami will be my son’s friend as well. From this eastern counterpart of Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn, I hope my son and his generation will learn not just about the culture and traditions of growing up in a beautiful and endearing town like Malgudi but also about the fun associated with living life simply yet delightfully.

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

The day the Tsunami struck

It was December 26th 2004…
It was another routine day visiting my parents in Hyderabad, India, or so I thought…
It is a day I will never forget for the rest of my life…

I was into day five of a one-week art workshop and running late. I got into an auto rickshaw and just about made it to the art center at 8.30 in the morning. As I walked into the art center, the melodious tunes of the veena, a sitar like string instrument, was playing in the background, and inspiring us to get more creative. I set up my materials and started doing my artwork.

About 15 minutes later the phone rang. I was watching our instructor answer the phone hoping it was not my mother calling me to say that my 12 month old was missing me already. She picked up the phone, said hello and a few seconds later her face fell! She ran to her adjoining office turned on the radio.

An underwater earthquake off the coast of Indonesia had triggered a tsunami, which had devastated coastal areas of Southeast Asia. All of us rushed into her office as we saw the lady go into shock. One of us got her a glass of water while the other held her hands and comforted her.

Sobbing, she told us that her son, who was in his early twenties, was working for the merchant navy and was currently stationed at an oil-drilling rig off the coast of Indonesia!!! That phone call was from her husband who was also desperately trying to call the oil company to find out the status of the drilling station and those on it.

A couple of the other workshop attendees turned on the TV as we continued to get details of the tsunami, areas that were affected, number of people, names, etc. While comforting my instructor and telling her that her son would be fine, I was secretly hoping and praying that the name of the her son or his oil rig would not appear in the list below.

For over three hours we saw a mother struggling to find out whether her son was dead or alive. Several phone calls and about three hours later the oil company called to say that those on the drilling rig were fine as they were not on the path of the tsunami. My instructor fainted from sheer relief. There is a god, I said to myself.

One year later, I as I remember the terror and fear that I saw on the face of my instructor, I tell myself that I am lucky, because, out of several thousands of heartbreaking tsunami stories, this was one of the very few that had a positive ending. I have learned to believe in the power of positive thinking. This tsunami had changed several lives, attitudes, beliefs, and hopes, including mine forever.

It was December 26th 2004…
It was the day that the tsunami changed millions of lives…
It is a day I will never forget for the rest of my life…

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

sawnet

SAWNET is an excellent site that has an exhaustive list of South Asian Womens Wiriters and their bios. There are also several book reviews available here. I am impressed with the number of writers and their achievements as well. http://www.sawnet.org/books/authors.php

Saturday, December 10, 2005

I am finally a blogger...

I have been very fascinated with blogs and am a late adopter, however better late than never!!!